Category Archives: emotional abuse

hair cut…

I’ve had a stressful week and I have two more days to go. Part of my job includes working for the Compliance department.   Our company will be having a scheduled government audit in a couple of weeks, so the … Continue reading

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thinking about “rough morning”

There is something I’ve been thinking about from the conversation Thursday morning. When he told me that he wanted sex and asked what he had to do to get sex and said, fix the roof, fix the floors, buy cars … Continue reading

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two outta three…

“I wanted to wash the dishes for you before you got home, but I didn’t have time because of going to Wal-Mart [for himself] and picking blueberries [for himself and his mom].”  

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rough morning, rough day

This morning, my husband and I talked for a long time. (I was forty-five minutes late to work.) We’ve been going to different churches for several months now and he thinks I should go to the same church that he … Continue reading

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saying yes instead of no

He asked me if I wanted to meet him at a certain restaurant near where I work for dinner tonight. Well, I don’t. But I said, sure. Why don’t I give myself a voice?  Why don’t I say, well, no, … Continue reading

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really?

You know how you have one of those days when you wake up feeling already behind and beaten before you even start? And you haven’t gotten enough sleep so you live the day on the verge of tears because when … Continue reading

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denial…

I’ve been in denial about how much damage my marriage has done to my daughters, about how much damage my husband has done to my daughters. I simply have blocked it out, not thought about it. I couldn’t face it. … Continue reading

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a day off…

You know what I hate about days off? He takes the day off, too. (He has his own business; he pretty much works – or doesn’t work – whenever he chooses.) I’ve been looking forward to having today off all … Continue reading

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sex tonight – the rest of the story

(See previous post.) Friday morning, after I got to work, I texted him, suggesting what I could make for dinner.  Recently, he has been making dinner on Friday nights fairly often.  But this Friday morning,  he had been kind of … Continue reading

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he’s ba-a-ack…

He’s back. You know the one about absence making the heart grow fonder? Last night on the way home, I was thinking that maybe it would be nice to see him when he got home. Yeah.  Well… It was all … Continue reading

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