Monthly Archives: December 2011

Illusion of a relationship

“Many of us have worked too hard to make relationships work; sometimes those relationships didn’t have a chance because the other person was unavailable or refused to participate. “To compensate for the other person’s unavailability, we worked too hard.  We … Continue reading

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One-Way Relationship

Today I went back to that huge bookstore that I went to yesterday.  I saw a book whose title of a book caught my eye. “The One-Way Relationship Workbook.” Here’s the blurb from the back:  “When you interact with a … Continue reading

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My part

I know I write an awful lot about his passive aggressive behavior.   Hence the small type of “the insanity of passive aggression.” My recovery is about looking at myself. So what has been my part? I think one huge thing … Continue reading

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10-10-10

Yesterday when I was in that HUGE bookstore, I saw the book “10-10-10.”   I had checked it out from the library quite some time ago, but had forgotten about it. It is a book about decision making.  You ask yourself, … Continue reading

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“Toxic Men”

I went to a HUGE bookstore today.  And I bought a book. “Toxic Men.” Here are the first three paragraphs from the introduction: “Too many women today are dating, living with, married to, working for, or working with a Toxic … Continue reading

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What to do

Here’s my dilemma.  I spend hours and hours thinking about this one. What do I do??? Do I stay or do I leave?  Do I keep trying to make it work? I’m reading another book.  (“Sacred Influence.”)  And it is … Continue reading

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Song lyrics

So tonight I’m at a hotel.  My daughters are attending an event in a different state from ours, and, as their chauffeur,  I’ve driven them to their event and now I get to kick back for a few days and … Continue reading

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Tainted Love

Sometimes I feel I’ve got to Run away I’ve got to Get away From the pain that you drive into the heart of me The love we share Seems to go nowhere And I’ve lost my light For I toss … Continue reading

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Longing

Last night I lay in bed, longing to feel connected.  Just the human simple need to love and be loved.   Nothing complicated.  Just connected companionship, camaraderie, caring. I am so tired of fighting, of wanting, of wondering, of trying to … Continue reading

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Who am I? – Part the First

Who am I? I think I’ve gotten lost somewhere along the way.  And I think I need to figure out who I am so I will know where to go. So who am I? I will start with the books … Continue reading

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