Monthly Archives: June 2012

Rude?

We have an event to go to this afternoon.  This morning he says, “I’m leaving at 12:45,” in a tone of voice and look that implies, “with or without you.”  (I wonder what he would say to our friends if … Continue reading

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Vacation’s over.

He’s back. And so is the inane conversation. And the immaturity. And so is my tension. And my frustration. And my underlying depression. And my insanity. ~~~~~ On Sunday, a couple of my siblings and their families are coming over … Continue reading

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Feelin’ good

I feel good this morning. It has been so relaxing not to have him here.  To wake up in the morning and stretch out in the bed and not feel tense.  It’s just so much more peaceful to me to … Continue reading

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Relaxed…

It’s very peaceful without him here. I feel so much more relaxed. And I sleep better, too. Ahhh…..

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“Sometimes…”

For a long, long time now, I have been feeling kind of lost.  Wondering who I am.  Wondering where my life is going.  Wondering if I am crazy.  Feeling like the life is being sucked out of me. I just … Continue reading

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Missing him

He’s working out of town for the next four days.  When he left this morning, he said, “I love you.  I’m going to miss you.  I know you’re not going to miss me.  You’re going to have a grand time … Continue reading

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Fearing rejection

I fear rejection. I have subconsciously realized this for awhile, but recently, it became very clear to me. In a meeting with my mentor last week, I told her something that I hadn’t planned to tell her because I was … Continue reading

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Ambition

We’re going canoeing.  I’m wearing shorts.  The vinyl seat in his truck is very uncomfortable on my bare legs.  I get a towel to sit on so my legs won’t stick to the vinyl. He says, “My next truck is … Continue reading

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Crazy making

Is it supposed to be this difficult?  I know they say that relationships take work, but is this what they mean? This post may not make a lot of sense because I’m tired and frustrated.  And living with passive aggression … Continue reading

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Cranking the Model T

I read this in a recent post on “Leadership Freak:” “Avoid Model T’s. Before driving a Model T you crank it to get it started. If you have to convince, cajole, or constantly crank someone to get them going, that’s … Continue reading

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