This is just a little rant and I think I’ve ranted about it before.
But it just bugs me when people make excuses for him.
I have a very nice friend who knows that my marriage is not that good. I don’t think she knows how bad it is and she doesn’t know about my blog.
I know she was trying to encourage me, but it just gets me when people say stuff like, he has feelings; he just doesn’t know how to express them. He probably just has a different communication style and doesn’t know how to show you that he loves you.
And this is my problem because…?
I don’t know. I just get aggravated. How come I’m supposed to just put up with it? How come I have to be good and patient and kind and accept excuses for him all the time? Where is his responsibility in this??? You know, I have had to see that I am co-dependent and have had to see all the problems that contributes to and have had to work hard on not being that way. And yet he doesn’t have to address any of his issues because he has different body parts???
Anyhow, I’ve had my little rant.