He’s ignoring me this morning. Silent treatment. And don’t even ask me why. Who knows.
We’re at a convention and this morning in the hotel room, he is completely ignoring me.
The main thought running through my mind is, I won’t have to put up with this for the rest of my life.
Another thought is, fine, you do your thing, I’ll do mine. So I’m blogging.
But underneath, it still hurts a little because it is not what I wanted for my life, for my marriage.
I’d love to be here in this beautiful place laughing, talking, flirting, making love, enjoying each other and the surroundings. But, no. Maybe someday…..
Last night, we went out with friends and one of the ladies has been a friend of mine for years and years, even though we live in different states now. As we were going to the ladies’ room together, she said, Your husband seems so nice. It makes it hard to believe that your marriage is the way it is.
Can you say “COVERT abuse”? Years ago, she divorced her husband so she knows what it is like to be in a bad marriage. But I know I am going to get that reaction when I finally do leave – he is so nice! What’s wrong with you?
Let me tell you – passive aggressive behavior is NOT nice!