It takes so little…

There’s this man at work who sometimes winks at me when he comes into work or walks by me.  He doesn’t say much to me and I don’t think he likes me particularly and I don’t have a crush on him or anything like that.

But somehow, when he winks at me, it makes me feel warm inside.

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2 Responses to It takes so little…

  1. Sofia Leo says:

    Yes, because he SEES you. It feels good to be seen. Not in a sexual way, but to be seen as a person is very powerful. I know how you feel.

  2. childofthetruth says:

    Sofia Leo is right. It does feel great to be seen. I didn’t realize that that is what was happening to us. We are not being “seen” by our spouses. As one blogger says…”we are a means to his end”. So true, so true. Thank you for your encouragement and your blogging. I’m getting stronger as time goes on but I do have moments of sadness when I “believe” that he is hurting. Then I have to snap out of it. I do pray for him as well as you that God will pour out His love on you and for a great healing.

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