There is a count-down widget at the bottom of my blog that I titled “Line in the Sand.”
It ended today.
Today was the day that I picked several months ago as the dead-line to make the decision about whether to stay or whether to go.
I actually made that decision September 24th and wrote about it in a post called No More Doubt.
When I attended a separation and divorce workshop recently, the lawyer giving it said, at one point, pick a date to leave and leave. Don’t keep hanging around! This was after I had done my Line in the Sand widget. But this date was to make the decision, not to actually leave.
So now, I guess maybe I need to pick a date to walk out the door. Maybe by this time next year?
(You know, it made me really sad to write this post.)