Monthly Archives: February 2013

me complaining…

OK  So I just need to complain. Yesterday it was raining. I asked him what he was going to do.  He said he was going to work; what did I want him to do?  I told him I wanted him … Continue reading

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feeling low…

Am I crazy to want more? Would anyone decent even want me? Why do I doubt so much?

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Make-up

I don’t usually wear make-up.  Occasionally, very occasionally, I will wear a little mascara. Today at work, a number of area executives were having head-shots and group shots done.  I was joking around with a couple of the ladies from … Continue reading

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Payback

Maybe I had this coming.  Maybe this is “what goes around comes around.” Or maybe it’s payback. Last night, he was telling me that when he was at the credit union, the teller asked him if he wanted to open … Continue reading

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just me venting

Last night, I told him I hate this marriage and I hate coming home in the evenings.  He said it doesn’t have to be this way.  He said I can do things differently.  I told him that I felt like … Continue reading

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no heat – updated update

Well, he did replace the electric wire that runs out to the shed, so now the chest freezer is no longer using an extension cord. He hasn’t buried the wire yet, though. He told his dad that he would have … Continue reading

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no heat – update

I just received this text.  “Darling. Just so you don’t worry, the freezer is running on a heavy duty extension cord.  I will get the permanant wire in as soon as I can.” All I can say is, the tarp … Continue reading

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no heat

So, last night when I got home, the house was cold.  I went to adjust the thermostat, but nothing happened.  I went outside and flipped the circuit breaker for the heating and air system and came in and tried it … Continue reading

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in the moment

As part of living intentionally, I am trying to live more in the moment.  Not dwelling on the past, not worrying about the future.  But trying to enjoy what I can enjoy right now, in this moment. And yesterday, just … Continue reading

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