from “Tell Me About It”

(*”Tell Me About It” is a column in the newspaper, like “Dear Abby”)

Advice from a reader:

~On being the only one making an effort to save the marriage:

If someone really is considering leaving the marriage, one technique is to go find a good divorce lawyer and have an initial consultation, which is usually free.  Also, find a good marriage counselor and have a session or two by yourself to be sure you feel you can work with him or her.

Then hand your spouse a business card from both, and ask which office he/she would like to meet you at.  I know people who have saved their marriages this way. –D

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