Monthly Archives: January 2015

chicken

He brought home chicken. I texted him and asked him to bring home chicken. So he brought home chicken. Chick-fil-a. I wanted Zaxby’s. No, I didn’t text “Zaxby’s.”  I texted “chicken.” My mistake. But he always brings home Zaxby’s.  (Well, … Continue reading

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when you find him

by Skylar Liberty Rose When you find him you will understand why you didn’t settle for the others that you found before. Why you couldn’t stay. Why they had to leave. When you find him you will find that he … Continue reading

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gets me every time

He’s been being nice.  Or, maybe I should say, helpful. You know, washing the dishes, taking out the trash, making dinner. (There is more I could add to both of those sentences, but I just too tired tonight.  I’ll try … Continue reading

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I’m still here

Hi. I’m still here. I’m still struggling. I’m still stuck. I’ve been going to the counselor and that is starting to help me, but I still have a long way to go. One thing I talked to him about was … Continue reading

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SMWI*: Soar

Originally posted on Live & Learn:
http://vimeo.com/116701371 Stick with this short film until the end. If you are having a difficult time getting motivated this morning, think of Dave Jacka. “I was this 20 year old guy…it was like any…

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me and my big mouth

I signed up to give a speech in Toastmasters tomorrow. I’m really not ready for it, but I’m pretty sure I can wing it.  I’m fairly good at Table Topics, which is the part of Toastmasters where you speak “off … Continue reading

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