Monthly Archives: July 2015

email from him

I received this email from him this morning: Some time ago we talked to someone who recommended that we read the book, Love and Respect. From that book I learned much, especially about the “crazy cycle”, that we have been … Continue reading

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empty…

My heart is empty so I feed my belly chocolate.

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More of what I want…

There are a couple of things I’d like to add about my “happily ever after.” (You can read my previous post here.) I want him to be successful at his job, business, career, profession. I want him to be willing … Continue reading

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What I want…

Two people this week asked me what I wanted – one so he could pray about it for me and another so he could find a house for me. So, my friends, here’s what I want. I want a house … Continue reading

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yeah whatever

Every morning, he very cheerfully says good morning to me. (Well, almost every morning.  Occasionally I think he must be mad because he won’t even look at me when I walk in.) I often ignore him. This morning, he again … Continue reading

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worthless…

I feel worthless. My counselor says I’m not worthless.  He says that I have intrinsic value just because I am.  I don’t have to do anything.  I don’t have to be anything. But tonight I feel worthless.  I feel like … Continue reading

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I like this….

I always used to be really concerned with following the rules. I wanted to do all the right things, and if possible, get some applause or at least maybe a gold star sticker. That works fine as long as everyone … Continue reading

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Darkness

Originally posted on Dr Bill Wooten:
“Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift.” ~ Mary Oliver

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