Tag Archives: His Needs Her Needs

pity party

I feel so angry and frustrated. I feel like I want too much. So many people talk about the importance of gratitude and then I feel terrible because I am not more thankful. I hate myself for wanting a house … Continue reading

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needing love, needing attention

I am struggling with this.  So much. There hasn’t been conflict at home for the past little bit and he has done stuff like take out the trash and take me out to dinner and loan me his pocket knife so … Continue reading

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Dear anonyman,

Thank you for your comment on a previous post.  I appreciate your honesty. Don’t be afraid for being male!  Throughout my whole life, my favorite people have been male.  I hope my blog does not come across as male-bashing because … Continue reading

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“Admiration”

In the “His  Needs, Her Needs” book, it says that men need admiration.  I know this.  But I am not good at this. I find it very hard to admire him.  Years ago, when I was going through all the … Continue reading

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“Conversation”

About four years ago, I discovered a book titled “His Needs Her Needs.”  I’ve wanted to write about this book on my blog for awhile now and tonight seemed to be a good time to start. For years and years … Continue reading

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