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comforting him…

He is often sad about his mom’s death (understandably) and needs to talk and cry. I’m trying to be comforting. But I am also finding it difficult. I know this is a hard time for him.  I understand that.  I … Continue reading

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thoughts

His mother died yesterday morning. I am okay with her death.  I don’t think I was quite the daughter-in-law and neighbor she hoped I would be.  I think because we didn’t really have any shared interests, it was kind of … Continue reading

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His mom

His mom is unresponsive this morning and they put her on oxygen. For about the past week and half, she has been in the hospital and then a rehab center. My husband and his dad will be going over there … Continue reading

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sleeping alone tonight

His mom is in the hospital again. She has been in horrible, horrible pain.  Hopefully, by now, something they have given her will have helped lessen the pain some. She was in so much pain that my husband said she … Continue reading

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coincidence?

One thing (of many) that I don’t like about living with a passive aggressive man is that it has made me suspicious. Yesterday, he wanted me to go visit his mom.  She is not doing well. I was having a … Continue reading

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his mom = the country

His mom is not doing well. She has had bone cancer for over three years now and the bones in her back have really, really deteriorated.  She is in the hospital right now because surgery they did on her back … Continue reading

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a hug

His mom was taken to the emergency room this afternoon because she is in so much pain.  Hours later, she is still waiting to be seen. Earlier this evening, my husband decided to go to the emergency room to be … Continue reading

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