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a quote…

“the heart gets confused when it is constantly told I love you by the same person who destroys it.” ~r.h. Sin

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really bizarre idea

So, here’s my really bizarre idea. If you see something in the refrigerator and you did not request that the item be purchased and you did not prepare the item yourself and you did not ask to see if maybe … Continue reading

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feeling crazy

I have felt crazy today. Maybe there is just too much going on. I’ve been sick for the past couple of weeks with some sort of weird cold/flu sort of thing.  I don’t usually get sick.  And when I do, … Continue reading

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How to Deal with a Narcissist

Please read the full article here.  Note:  I did not write this! A very quick summary on how to deal with a narcissist: • Don’t.  – Think haunted house. Get out of there the first chance you can. • Kiss Up … Continue reading

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adrenal fatigue

This video is about thirty minutes long, but within the first five minutes, he discusses passive aggressive people.

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maybe you stay…

Maybe you stay. Maybe you be thankful you have a roof over your head and food to eat.  And a van to drive.  And a good job with good people. Maybe you just go to work and go the gym … Continue reading

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he found my blog

He said he was sorry to learn of my pain and turmoil. He said I was petty and judgmental. He said a lot of stuff quoting Dr. Laura’s book and defending “Love and Respect.” He said he wants me to … Continue reading

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email from him

I received this email from him this morning: Some time ago we talked to someone who recommended that we read the book, Love and Respect. From that book I learned much, especially about the “crazy cycle”, that we have been … Continue reading

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yeah whatever

Every morning, he very cheerfully says good morning to me. (Well, almost every morning.  Occasionally I think he must be mad because he won’t even look at me when I walk in.) I often ignore him. This morning, he again … Continue reading

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worthless…

I feel worthless. My counselor says I’m not worthless.  He says that I have intrinsic value just because I am.  I don’t have to do anything.  I don’t have to be anything. But tonight I feel worthless.  I feel like … Continue reading

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