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a quote…

“the heart gets confused when it is constantly told I love you by the same person who destroys it.” ~r.h. Sin Advertisements

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what forgiveness isn’t…

“‘…It ain’t pretending nothing happened to you when it did.  It ain’t saying that what happened wasn’t no big deal and didn’t matter.  It ain’t saying the person didn’t know what they were up to, if they did.  And it … Continue reading

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pain…

“She started to cry, holding the washcloth tightly over her face to muffle the sound.  Then her sobs grew and grew, until they wracked her body.  She could feel the wounds deep inside that hadn’t healed yet, aching with each … Continue reading

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silence encourages the tormentor

“Whenever and wherever human beings endure suffering and humiliation, take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented.” ~Elie Wiesel

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quote for the day … or the year

“When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you.  The misinformation will seem unfair, but stay above it.  Trust that others will eventually see the truth, just as you did.” ~ … Continue reading

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here’s a thought…

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a quote

I saw this quote today: “It’s worth the trouble to become the person you were meant to be.” ~Dave Ramsey

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I like this….

I always used to be really concerned with following the rules. I wanted to do all the right things, and if possible, get some applause or at least maybe a gold star sticker. That works fine as long as everyone … Continue reading

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quote for the day…

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The only thing you can be best at….

My previous post (here) was reblogged from Live & Learn.  The reblogging process does not capture the entire post and my favorite line from the whole post doesn’t show on my blog.  You have to read the full blog post … Continue reading

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