Tag Archives: victimization

I didn’t think you cared

One morning last week, he was rummaging around in my bucket of gardening tools and I asked him what he was doing.  He finally held up my long handled pruners. I asked him again, what are you doing.  He said, … Continue reading

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Call me irresponsible

Last night I yelled at him.  I’m not a yelling kinda person.  But I yelled last night. It didn’t start out that way, though. I very calmly brought up that our daughter needed a car for college and asked him … Continue reading

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The bad guy

So, last night while I was washing the dishes, after cutting his hair, I was thinking, not much p.a. stuff has been happening, wonder what’s coming.  And when. By the way, did you know that I am wonderful?  Yes, I … Continue reading

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Chocolate

I want chocolate so bad right now.  I want is so, so, so badly! Chocolate is my comfort, my friend, my lover.  But I am on this diet and one of the things I can’t have is chocolate.  I could … Continue reading

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Stupid post

I sorta want to talk about this and I sorta don’t.  I don’t want to talk about it because I am just so sick and tired of it all.  I also feel like I am just whining instead of actually … Continue reading

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quote of the evening

“Part of the way I am is because of the way you treat me.  And if you would just speak to me in my love language and be more loving towards me, then I could love you better and be … Continue reading

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Silent treatment

He came home last night at 10 o’clock.  He didn’t say a word to me.  He took a shower and got into bed and said, “Good night.” This morning he didn’t say anything either.  I asked him if he was … Continue reading

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