him: Hope you are having a good day
me: Not really.
him: I wish I could have given you a hug before you left this morning. Remember you are important, smart, beautiful, and funny, too.
me: Really? Then why do I feel like scum?
him: It may have something to do with focusing on negatives in your life instead of positives, like the superb job you did at toastmasters, that you are conscientious and hard working and you have a husband that loves you even though you don’t love him, etc.