Monthly Archives: January 2014

sometimes I wonder…

Sometimes I wonder if I am just lying to myself that I will ever leave. I did go drive by a house that I saw listed on craigslist.  And I called to see if the rent included utilities.  It doesn’t.  … Continue reading

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I needed a little reminder…

I have done so many things wrong in my marriage.   (Some time I will try to list some of them for you.)   There are so many things I’ve learned in the past few years about being a good wife and … Continue reading

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checking on his dad … or not

Let me set the stage just a little. One of my husband’s sisters lives in the same state that we do, but about a three hour drive away from us – and his parents. His dad had a couple of … Continue reading

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nightmare

I woke up this morning at a quarter to one from a horrible, horrible dream. I dreamed my husband shot my (our) older daughter. Twice. And she died while I was holding her and there was nothing I could do. … Continue reading

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T.P.

What is with the TWO SHEETS of toilet paper left on the toilet paper roll?????????????? Seriously??? Aaaarrggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! Yeah, so, I’m over-reacting.   But really?  Why? Just why?

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so cold

It is so cold. I didn’t want to come home tonight. I often don’t want to come home, but somehow, tonight,  I felt even more desolate than usual about coming home. I feel as cold inside as it is cold … Continue reading

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2013 in review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2013 annual report for this blog. Here’s an excerpt: The Louvre Museum has 8.5 million visitors per year. This blog was viewed about 110,000 times in 2013. If it were an exhibit at … Continue reading

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