Monthly Archives: June 2016

letter to the Stanford rapist’s father

(I did NOT write this.) To Brock Turner’s Father, From Another Father by John Pavlovitz Dear Mr. Turner, I’ve read your letter to the judge on behalf of your son Brock, asking for leniency in his rape conviction. I need you … Continue reading

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You took away my worth…

“You took away my worth, my privacy, my energy, my time, my intimacy, my confidence, my own voice…”  source: A rape victim delivers powerful message  

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looking out for myself

This past Friday was my birthday, my fiftieth (wow!) birthday. I made plans for myself, to do something for me that I wanted to do. And I didn’t tell my husband. Naturally, this upset my husband and, of course, there … Continue reading

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forgive yourself…

(I found this image thanks to “A Covert Narcissist’s Wife.”)

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