I hate having to ask him for money. I hate it.
Maybe I will ask him if he will always leave a stash of cash in a place where I can get it when I need to so I don’t have to watch him pull out his wallet and count out the money and hand it to me. I wonder if he would do that. Or maybe he likes the control too much.
Maybe it won’t be long before I can leave.
Ugh!!!!
Oh, and I really want sex. Really, really, really want it.
"While it might be a mistake to give up on a relationship with a passive-aggressive man until all avenues for change have been explored, at some point, you must cut your losses. ..... To stay in a relationship that is harmful to you is not only pointless but self-destructive. This is one of the unfortunate costs of passive aggression: conflicts all too quickly escalate to the point where getting out is your only choice."
from "Living With the Passive Aggressive Man"
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Passive Aggressive Abuse
The asking for money thing has been a persistent problem in my marriage. In my case, it has definitely been a means of control.
I wouldn’t bother asking him to put money somewhere, he obviously relishes on the control he has on you on that front. Just let him have it for now, you’re on the verge of leaving anyways, then you won’t have to ask anyone for anything. :)
It’s all about control. And making you beg. He’s a dick. Sorry – can’t say that enough :-)
It’s been busy here, but have been keeping up on new posts, and anxious to hear your results after this doctor visit.
You’re MUCH nicer than I was with my husband concerning money. What are your fears, Sis?
I know that you’re a faithful spirit, as are many of the readers of this blog. Know that I pray for you, and these others, so desperate for change and peace.