Okay. Maybe I don’t hate crumbs. I actually like crumbs.
They make me feel warm and happy.
But then the warm and happy wears off and I feel so cold and empty.
And then I wish the crumbs hadn’t been there in the first place because the cold and empty hurts so much.
Maybe it would be better if there weren’t crumbs at all.
I wish I wasn’t so hungry.
"While it might be a mistake to give up on a relationship with a passive-aggressive man until all avenues for change have been explored, at some point, you must cut your losses. ..... To stay in a relationship that is harmful to you is not only pointless but self-destructive. This is one of the unfortunate costs of passive aggression: conflicts all too quickly escalate to the point where getting out is your only choice."
from "Living With the Passive Aggressive Man"
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Passive Aggressive Abuse
OMG you poor thing.
I hate crumbs too. They are so bittersweet, you get that instant moment of validation/love/affection but if it comes from your pa partner, you know that it comes with strings attached ie. they want something from you or they’ll flip out and abuse you very soon after… II sometimes wished that I could fade away and not be seen by mine, I wanted to just hide somewhere in the house.
If you’re getting these crumbs from someone else then you dream that it would come from a loving partner instead… It always leaves me very empty afterwards…
Nope. Not from my husband. He will say stuff like (and I just made this one up, but he says stuff like this), “that’s a nice shirt – is it supposed to be that color?” So, no crumbs from my husband.
I’m talking about crumbs from others. And yes, then I long that they would come from a loving partner. I want so much more…
Virtual hugs – and no those are not crumbs…