Monthly Archives: May 2013

he sent me flowers

Posted on May 31, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

He sent me red roses at work. The card said, “Happy Birthday Darling!  You will always be young and beautiful to me.  – I love you.”   My birthday is Monday (today is Friday).  He is leaving this afternoon to go … Continue reading →

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what Julie said

Posted on May 30, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Well, I told Julie, the therapist, that I felt like giving up.  Just quitting.  Not even trying anymore.  I told her that maybe I should just be content with the fact that I have a roof over my head (albeit … Continue reading →

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post written after eating WAY too much sugar

Posted on May 29, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I told him that I felt like that he didn’t like it that I went to the gym. Of course, he told me that he didn’t mind at all that I go the gym. But still, I wonder. He has … Continue reading →

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possiblity of a raise?

Posted on May 28, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

This morning I asked at work, if I were to get a raise, when might it be and how much might it be. The possibility of a raise comes with my annual review, which will be at the end of … Continue reading →

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Never Give Up.

Posted on May 27, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Originally posted on Your Healing Frequency:
The following was shared by one of my Facebook page followers, Paula F. Her story reads like a miracle! She hopes her story will help inspire others to keep moving forward despite the overwhelming…

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Inspiring Blogger Award

Posted on May 26, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

A couple of months ago, Holly Michelle at Where Art Thou included me in her nominations for the Inspiring Blogger Award. Thank you!  :} So here are the rules for the Inspiring Blogger Award: 1. Display the logo of the … Continue reading →

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tires

Posted on May 24, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

A few days ago, my husband told me that the tires on my daughter’s car needed to be rotated.  I asked him if I needed to take them someplace to get them rotated.  He was quiet and then said, hmmm, … Continue reading →

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changing?

Posted on May 20, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

This morning, he told me that he is working on changing. And, yes, I have seen him trying to be a little more considerate.  But at the same time, he is just as passive aggressive when he gets mad at … Continue reading →

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raving lunatic

Posted on May 15, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Tonight I yelled at him.  It didn’t start out that way and I didn’t mean to, but maybe I just have so much pent up in me that I ended up yelling.  I almost never yell. I’m not even going … Continue reading →

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Speaking up

Posted on May 15, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I’ve started speaking up a little. I told him that I didn’t like it that he insulted me to the waiter.  He asked me what I meant and I explained it to him and he apologized. When he told me … Continue reading →

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