Tag Archives: not a daddy

last night / tonight

Okay, so last night I couldn’t get him to leave the house and go visit his parents so my daughter could call her sister.  (See post.) Tonight he decides he needs to go help his parents and spends an hour … Continue reading

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I slept in the living room last night

I slept in the living room last night. I asked him to, but, well, you know… You know, when he starts accusing me, the thing is, he’s not completely wrong. Last night, after I had asked him to sleep in … Continue reading

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“prison dinner”

Last night, my husband made dinner. I told my daughter that the food was ready and she could come get some food. My husband and I sat down at the table to eat. In case you don’t know, my daughter … Continue reading

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rough morning, rough day

This morning, my husband and I talked for a long time. (I was forty-five minutes late to work.) We’ve been going to different churches for several months now and he thinks I should go to the same church that he … Continue reading

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denial…

I’ve been in denial about how much damage my marriage has done to my daughters, about how much damage my husband has done to my daughters. I simply have blocked it out, not thought about it. I couldn’t face it. … Continue reading

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weary today

Today I felt so weary. I have a decent job, but it isn’t challenging and I get bored and frustrated.  I try not to think about it and just do what I’m supposed to do to the best of my … Continue reading

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just another evening…

Today I was feeling lonely and longing to be loved and to love back.  This is not an unusual occurrence.    And I was thinking – maybe I should try harder with my husband.   Maybe I can try to … Continue reading

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not involved

My daughter is in New York City! At this very moment, she is attending Les Mis.   I’m sure she is absolutely loving it!  And that is an understatement!  (link about Les Mis) Did I ever tell you that she … Continue reading

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Life goes on…

I’m writing a lot today.  It seems like there are things I just need to get caught up on. If you’ve read my blog for a long time, you may have noticed that I haven’t written as much recently about … Continue reading

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just stuff

I’ve had stuffy ears and a sore throat for over a week now.  I’ve really felt yucky, but I think I am starting to feel a little better now.   I sure do hope so.  I think being sick is contributing … Continue reading

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