I think maybe I figured out why I’m stuck.
I think it is because I believe I don’t deserve any better.
I’m not worthy to be loved and cared for.
What is Passive Aggressive Behavior?
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"While it might be a mistake to give up on a relationship with a passive-aggressive man until all avenues for change have been explored, at some point, you must cut your losses. ..... To stay in a relationship that is harmful to you is not only pointless but self-destructive. This is one of the unfortunate costs of passive aggression: conflicts all too quickly escalate to the point where getting out is your only choice."
from "Living With the Passive Aggressive Man"
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Passive Aggressive Abuse 
That’s how I got into my relationship with my ex. I’ve been working with my counselor to figure out how I got trapped into that lie. I hope you discover some healing. *Sending hugs*
You are worthy. You are enough.
The last thing piece of advice my therapist said to me before I moved away, was “Think about what you are entitled to.”
I noticed that your most recent post is that you moved out. I hope loving yourself became a lot easier for you!