Monthly Archives: June 2014

sex tonight – the rest of the story

(See previous post.) Friday morning, after I got to work, I texted him, suggesting what I could make for dinner.  Recently, he has been making dinner on Friday nights fairly often.  But this Friday morning,  he had been kind of … Continue reading

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sex tonight…

He wants sex tonight. I want to die.

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he’s ba-a-ack…

He’s back. You know the one about absence making the heart grow fonder? Last night on the way home, I was thinking that maybe it would be nice to see him when he got home. Yeah.  Well… It was all … Continue reading

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alone tonight…

He’s out of town tonight! Yipee!!! I get to sleep by myself!  I get to wake up by myself! Oh, the bliss!  The sheer bliss!

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I had a bad day…

First, let me say that there was nothing terrible in my day.  “First world problems,” my daughter calls them. I woke up depressed.  I cried in the shower.  I cried on the way to work.  I cried at work. That’s … Continue reading

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he crashed the party

When he said he was thinking about coming to visit at my sister’s house Friday night, I thought he would come by for a couple of hours and then go home.  (See post.) Well… he stayed. Early Saturday evening, he … Continue reading

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at my sister’s house

I’m spending the week-end at my sister’s house.  I drove here after work yesterday (Friday) and I will go home again on Sunday.  This sister lives in a city about two hour’s drive from house. My sister and her family … Continue reading

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weary today

Today I felt so weary. I have a decent job, but it isn’t challenging and I get bored and frustrated.  I try not to think about it and just do what I’m supposed to do to the best of my … Continue reading

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punishment and protecting

A couple of days ago, I asked him if he would fry a couple of eggs for me for breakfast while he was frying his own eggs for breakfast.  He said he would.  So he did yesterday. This morning, when … Continue reading

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