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Double standard

So, why is it that when I am asked to do something, anything, it is expected that I take care of it?  No questions asked.  Buy something, deliver something, call someone, sign something, wash something, iron something, fix something, be … Continue reading

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Call me irresponsible

Last night I yelled at him.  I’m not a yelling kinda person.  But I yelled last night. It didn’t start out that way, though. I very calmly brought up that our daughter needed a car for college and asked him … Continue reading

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Obstructionism?

Every morning, while he eats breakfast, he watches TV.   Usually the news. Every morning, while I eat breakfast, I use the laptop to check my email. Last night, we had a pretty big “discussion.” So, this morning when I walk … Continue reading

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What to do

Here’s my dilemma.  I spend hours and hours thinking about this one. What do I do??? Do I stay or do I leave?  Do I keep trying to make it work? I’m reading another book.  (“Sacred Influence.”)  And it is … Continue reading

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