“You don’t know what you want so I have a hard time giving it to you.”
Oh, and apparently, he is compassionate and I’m just too stupid to realized it. (He didn’t call me stupid. That is my sarcasm.)
He just wants to love me and get along with me and make me happy.
Obviously, I am the difficult one.
Yep. That’s me.
The terrible wife.
"While it might be a mistake to give up on a relationship with a passive-aggressive man until all avenues for change have been explored, at some point, you must cut your losses. ..... To stay in a relationship that is harmful to you is not only pointless but self-destructive. This is one of the unfortunate costs of passive aggression: conflicts all too quickly escalate to the point where getting out is your only choice."
from "Living With the Passive Aggressive Man"
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Passive Aggressive Abuse
Trust me, if you told him what he could do that might make you happy, he’d do the opposite or do the thing in a clearly half-assed manner.
Oh, you are SO right!!!! This “conversation” began with me very clearly saying “I want you to leave.” No ambiguity whatsoever.
Yes, we are always the bad guys and the terrible wives, mothers, etc insert whatever you want here….. These guys, there is no way they are that dense, they know what we need they just don’t give a hoot!
I’m right up there with you after giving him over a year telling him everything that was wrong to a T and what he could do to fix it. Its my fault because I didn’t stay and won’t change my mind because if we weren’t talking or should I say fighting about it it was never brought up and nothing ever done to try and fix anything. When I did bring it up he then would say well I was going to take you out for lunch tomorrow so where do you want to go? Never once did he ever ask me to go anywhere unless I got mad about him doing nothing and acting as if nothing was wrong. Every time he was going to do this or that the next day I just happen to get mad and say something before he could tell me. Like he was going to say anything when it was all ready 11pm.