Okay, so last night I couldn’t get him to leave the house and go visit his parents so my daughter could call her sister. (See post.)
Tonight he decides he needs to go help his parents and spends an hour and a half at their house.
Whatever.
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"While it might be a mistake to give up on a relationship with a passive-aggressive man until all avenues for change have been explored, at some point, you must cut your losses. ..... To stay in a relationship that is harmful to you is not only pointless but self-destructive. This is one of the unfortunate costs of passive aggression: conflicts all too quickly escalate to the point where getting out is your only choice."
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Passive Aggressive Abuse 
Grrr. That is no accident and no coincidence (but you know that already). ;) I have had that sort of thing so many times. So petty. So ridiculous. They really are a tragic comedy.
And you know, if you try to explain it to someone who hasn’t a clue about PA behavior, then you just sound crazy.
argggggh – I have a head and mouth full of swear words I will not use here!!!!