Tag Archives: recovery

feeling crazy

Posted on April 28, 2016 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I have felt crazy today. Maybe there is just too much going on. I’ve been sick for the past couple of weeks with some sort of weird cold/flu sort of thing.  I don’t usually get sick.  And when I do, … Continue reading →

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losing my job and another therapist

Posted on March 8, 2016 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I will be losing my job. My company was bought by another company and my “position is being eliminated.” I have about another month before my last day so at least I have a little time to look for something … Continue reading →

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forgiveness

Posted on March 24, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Last evening, he said that I don’t forgive him.  (He has said this before.)  I told him that I do forgive him, but that he keeps doing the same things over and over again and so I don’t trust him. … Continue reading →

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Trusting Ourselves

Posted on March 19, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

On March 13th, I wrote a post about “Trust.” The March 14th reading in “The Language of Letting Go,” is: Trusting Ourselves Trust can be one of the most confusing concepts in recovery.  Who do we trust?  For what? The … Continue reading →

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“passive aggressive won’t marry me”

Posted on August 17, 2012 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I was looking at the search terms that were used by people who found my blog. One phrase caught my eye: “passive aggressive won’t marry me” Sweetie, if he is passive aggressive you don’t want him to marry you.  Run.  Run … Continue reading →

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How to Stop So You Can Start

Posted on August 11, 2012 by Writing about Passive Aggression

(This is from Leadership Freak.) How to Stop So You Can Start Before you find your personal best, let go of your mediocrity. Determine what isn’t working and stop it. Stopping: Stopping is harder than you think. Fear of failure … Continue reading →

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Will passive aggressive behavior rub off on you?

Posted on August 9, 2012 by Writing about Passive Aggression

So, if you live with a passive aggressive person, do you start to take on passive aggressive traits?  I’ve heard it can happen. But I have a few thoughts about it. For one thing, from what I understand, passive aggressive … Continue reading →

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Waffling

Posted on August 5, 2012 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Yes, Mo, I waffle. Right now, I hate him.  This past Friday, I was thinking maybe I could just stick it out.  My job is nice enough; it lets me be around pleasant people.  I’ve got my house to take … Continue reading →

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Getting help

Posted on August 4, 2012 by Writing about Passive Aggression

If you are married to a Passive Aggressive man, you are probably co-dependent.   Fact. We are the kind of people passive aggressive men seek out to be with. So, how do we get healthy so we won’t be involved in … Continue reading →

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