Tag Archives: the house

feeling crazy

Posted on April 28, 2016 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I have felt crazy today. Maybe there is just too much going on. I’ve been sick for the past couple of weeks with some sort of weird cold/flu sort of thing.  I don’t usually get sick.  And when I do, … Continue reading →

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weary

Posted on February 15, 2015 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I’m weary. And I’m tired of being weary. I’m tired of trying to figure things out. Like the plants in the previous post. Am I critical because all the plants were not brought in?  If I brought it up to … Continue reading →

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he’s ba-a-ack…

Posted on June 26, 2014 by Writing about Passive Aggression

He’s back. You know the one about absence making the heart grow fonder? Last night on the way home, I was thinking that maybe it would be nice to see him when he got home. Yeah.  Well… It was all … Continue reading →

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empty inside

Posted on November 5, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I feel so empty inside.  My heart hurts, longing to love and to be loved. My body aches, wanting so badly to be touched, to be held, to make love. My husband has been being nothing but kind since he … Continue reading →

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content or complacent?

Posted on March 19, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Last evening, as I was driving home, I thought about the wrinkles that are beginning and the strands of grey hair that are showing up one by one and I thought that maybe I should give up on ever being … Continue reading →

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no heat – updated update

Posted on February 8, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Well, he did replace the electric wire that runs out to the shed, so now the chest freezer is no longer using an extension cord. He hasn’t buried the wire yet, though. He told his dad that he would have … Continue reading →

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no heat – update

Posted on February 5, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I just received this text.  “Darling. Just so you don’t worry, the freezer is running on a heavy duty extension cord.  I will get the permanant wire in as soon as I can.” All I can say is, the tarp … Continue reading →

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no heat

Posted on February 5, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

So, last night when I got home, the house was cold.  I went to adjust the thermostat, but nothing happened.  I went outside and flipped the circuit breaker for the heating and air system and came in and tried it … Continue reading →

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another home improvement (mini) saga

Posted on January 7, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Our bedroom has two ceiling fans ~ one over our bed and one on the other side of the room, the “office.” About ten days ago, the light switch on the ceiling fan in the office stopped working.  He asked … Continue reading →

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dirty water

Posted on October 30, 2012 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I feel really stupid writing this right now, given the flooding and damage from the huge hurricane.  I know many people aren’t even able to be in their homes right now and when they do return home, they may be … Continue reading →

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