Tag Archives: leaving

If you’re standing in crap…

Posted on May 2, 2015 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Please read the full post here: http://theothersideofcomplexity.com/standingincrap/  

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stuck

Posted on February 22, 2015 by Writing about Passive Aggression

I don’t think I will ever have the courage to leave. And I don’t think anyone will ever truly want me, truly love me. I don’t think I’ll ever get to make love. I think I am stuck here until … Continue reading →

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counseling???

Posted on September 5, 2014 by Writing about Passive Aggression

First I want to thank you for the so very encouraging comments I received on yesterday’s post.  Your comments – on that post and on all of my posts – mean so very, very much to me.  I know I … Continue reading →

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I needed to hear this…

Posted on April 7, 2014 by Writing about Passive Aggression

This comment was left on my “About” page.  For some reason, I needed to hear this today.   Maybe it is the line “…now in a loving relationship…”  Maybe it is the hope. By the way, I appreciate so much all … Continue reading →

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What’s Stopping You?

Posted on March 29, 2014 by Writing about Passive Aggression

reblogged from Live & Learn

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“The freedom is unbelievable!”

Posted on February 2, 2014 by Writing about Passive Aggression

This comment was left on a previous post (see post) and I wanted to share it with you. Hey! I’m a long time follower of your blog, but this is my first time posting. I DID IT! After 12 miserable … Continue reading →

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sometimes I wonder…

Posted on January 27, 2014 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Sometimes I wonder if I am just lying to myself that I will ever leave. I did go drive by a house that I saw listed on craigslist.  And I called to see if the rent included utilities.  It doesn’t.  … Continue reading →

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What it’s like right now…

Posted on December 27, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

Nothing. Just nothing. Empty. When he didn’t give me any more money for Thanksgiving (see post), I pretty much stopped talking to him.  At all.  Period. Not there were any great conversations anyway. He still talks to me. He tells … Continue reading →

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I may have a house…

Posted on December 23, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

One of the men at work – we’ll call him Randy – knows someone who has an empty house. A man and his sister have to look after the house because their mom is now in a nursing home.   The … Continue reading →

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talking with the lawyer

Posted on December 3, 2013 by Writing about Passive Aggression

My appointment with the lawyer this morning went well. She does free workshops about the legal aspects of divorce and separation in the state where I live.  I’ve gone to her workshops probably about five times over the past year … Continue reading →

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