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If you’re standing in crap…

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stuck

I don’t think I will ever have the courage to leave. And I don’t think anyone will ever truly want me, truly love me. I don’t think I’ll ever get to make love. I think I am stuck here until … Continue reading

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counseling???

First I want to thank you for the so very encouraging comments I received on yesterday’s post.  Your comments – on that post and on all of my posts – mean so very, very much to me.  I know I … Continue reading

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I needed to hear this…

This comment was left on my “About” page.  For some reason, I needed to hear this today.   Maybe it is the line “…now in a loving relationship…”  Maybe it is the hope. By the way, I appreciate so much all … Continue reading

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What’s Stopping You?

reblogged from Live & Learn

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“The freedom is unbelievable!”

This comment was left on a previous post (see post) and I wanted to share it with you. Hey! I’m a long time follower of your blog, but this is my first time posting. I DID IT! After 12 miserable … Continue reading

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sometimes I wonder…

Sometimes I wonder if I am just lying to myself that I will ever leave. I did go drive by a house that I saw listed on craigslist.  And I called to see if the rent included utilities.  It doesn’t.  … Continue reading

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What it’s like right now…

Nothing. Just nothing. Empty. When he didn’t give me any more money for Thanksgiving (see post), I pretty much stopped talking to him.  At all.  Period. Not there were any great conversations anyway. He still talks to me. He tells … Continue reading

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I may have a house…

One of the men at work – we’ll call him Randy – knows someone who has an empty house. A man and his sister have to look after the house because their mom is now in a nursing home.   The … Continue reading

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talking with the lawyer

My appointment with the lawyer this morning went well. She does free workshops about the legal aspects of divorce and separation in the state where I live.  I’ve gone to her workshops probably about five times over the past year … Continue reading

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